Nadezhda Grishaeva: fitness is not scary

When opening a fitness center, few people think about the anxieties people feel when visiting gyms. Sometimes, a fitness center appears to the average individual as an inaccessible place they're not meant to be part of, and some are concerned about critical glances and judgments. It's essential to take into account the psychological aspects of potential visitors to make their gym experience as comfortable as possible. Nadezhda Grishaeva, the founder of Anvil Fitness Club Moscow, shared with Sostav insights the unexpected sides and nuances of the fitness world.

Jimphobia and gymnophobia

In English, there's a term, gymphobia, which literally means fear of the gym. Another less common term is jimtimidation, a blend of 'gym' (meaning hall) and 'intimidation' — it It's about the fear a person feels about entering a fitness club, worried they'll stand out, attracting askew glances. Jimphobia is one of the reasons why individuals are afraid to engage in fitness activities. Often, a fitness center appears to many as some inaccessible place they're not meant to be part of.

Before we delve into gymphobia's roots, it's crucial to differentiate it from gymnophobia. This fear, too, is prevalent among clients and deters them from attending healthy lifestyle clubs. Yet, it's a distinct fear — gymnophobia is the dread of nudity, the anxiety over being seen naked or undressed.

Many harbor complex feelings towards their body and nudity. People's fear levels vary, influenced by different contexts. Some might dread public nudity, like in gym changing rooms, while others might be uncomfortable with the sight of others' nudity. Numerous factors, including religious beliefs, past traumas, or body shame, can influence one's reluctance to be seen naked or to view nudity.

Overcoming nudity fears is challenging but beneficial for mental well-being and self-confidence. At Anvil Club, how have we tackled this issue? We've installed private shower stalls, offering a space not just for showering but also for changing in privacy. Our king-sized showers were designed for ultimate visitor comfort.

For gymnophobia, experts suggest practicing mirror exercises, where you observe and accept your naked reflection. Interestingly, Anvil boasts over a thousand mirrors, not just for self-acceptance but also due to a common trait among bodybuilders: narcissism, which I'll discuss later.

Returning to jimphobia, this fear stems from various concerns:

• uncertainty about gym routines, how to execute exercises correctly, and appropriate behavior, often seen in newcomers;
• Self-comparison with surrounding individuals, particularly professional athletes;
• The impression of being observed, discussed, or judged by others.

How to overcome fears in the gym

For a new gym-goer, many aspects of the gym can seem intimidating. Fitness equipment can seem as advanced as electric cars. It's natural to feel initial doubts when trying something new. Everyone has probably felt self-conscious at some point, wondering if they're dressed correctly, will look out of place, or can keep up with the workout. This is a normal part of trying new experiences. Remember, even Arnold Schwarzenegger started as a beginner. All gym regulars began somewhere.

I advocate for dedicating the first few sessions to learning. Consider working with a personal trainer. Personal training has proven benefits. As the gym becomes a habit, anxiety decreases. Consistent attendance reduces gym anxiety.

Not understanding how to operate machines is a typical newbie concern. A simple remedy is an introductory tour. Utilize the gym staff's expertise. At Anvil, we ensure new members are always guided initially.

Comparing oneself to others can be daunting. Noticing someone lifting heavy weights or a bodybuilder's pose might trigger self-comparison. Such comparisons might feel discouraging. It's best to focus on your own journey.

A third common gym fear is feeling observed. Most people are too focused on their workouts to notice others. Judgment from others says more about them than about you. Let go of these concerns.

Most gyms provide introductory sessions. Group fitness classes are a great way to acclimate and meet people. Today's fitness centers offer a holistic experience beyond just workouts. Don't be held back by gym fears. Join us at Anvil and embrace your fitness journey.

Sports narcissists

Know someone who's overly self-assured in their fitness abilities? What about those who can't handle criticism? Or the person who constantly seeks attention through loud or showy behaviors? These are signs of sports narcissism.

Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by self-centeredness and a lack of empathy. A healthy focus on fitness is good, but obsession has its downsides. Balancing one's gym behavior is key to a healthy fitness lifestyle.

Narcissism isn't truly about self-love. It's more apt to describe sports narcissists as individuals obsessed with their physical prowess, yet this obsession is akin to an addiction. They are enamored with an idealized version of themselves, which serves as a shield against their underlying feelings of insufficiency and self-doubt. Do fitness clubs have their share of narcissists? Indeed, there are.

For a well-rounded individual, physical and mental well-being are aligned, echoed in the adage: A healthy body harbors a healthy spirit. Addressing deep-seated fears or narcissism often necessitates expert intervention. Thus, consulting a psychologist and engaging in personal therapy can be a valuable complement to regular gym visits.